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There’s something bittersweet about a friend packing up for a new chapter. Maybe they’re moving to another city, chasing a dream job, or starting fresh somewhere far away. And while you’re busy helping them roll up posters and stuff clothes into boxes, you’re also trying to figure out how to say _this matters_ in a way that sticks.

The answer? You don’t just say goodbye. You send them off with a little piece of home.

**❤️ A Keepsake Full of Love (and Inside Jokes)**
When one of your people leaves, what they’ll miss most isn’t the skyline or the coffee shop, it’s the tiny, everyday things that made it _all_ feel like theirs. That’s where a memory book comes in.

Invite your circle to share messages, advice, and yes, that story you _all_ bring up at dinner parties. Add photos, inside jokes, funny quotes, and traditions only your group could’ve come up with. If you're not sure what to ask, [creative prompts](https://yourkithandkin.com/blog/how-to-use-unique-prompts-to-make-your-memory-book-truly-special) can spark those rich, surprising stories you didn’t know you needed. With a little guidance, even the most reluctant contributors find their words.

_💡 Tip: Keep it real. Let the stories be messy, funny, heartfelt, and unmistakably you._

**🎵 A Playlist That Sounds Like Home**
Think of it as a care package in audio form. Gather songs that meant something—your road trip anthem, the one that always plays at parties, or the track that makes you both cry-laugh. Pair the playlist with a personal note or story behind each song. Music, especially when tied to a memory, is one of the most powerful ways to [evoke memories](https://yourkithandkin.com/blog/the-power-of-the-proust-effect-in-bringing-memories-to-life).

**🍝 A Recipe Box of Favorite Flavours**
Food = nostalgia. Especially when it’s been part of your shared rituals. Whether you’ve had late-night nachos on the kitchen floor or a yearly potluck tradition, food has a way of keeping people connected. 

Ask friends to contribute:
- A favorite dish, drink, or dessert
- A note or memory tied to the recipe

It’s like sending them away with a warm kitchen hug. Adding a [book](https://yourkithandkin.com/blog/bringing-people-together-one-recipe-at-a-time) alongside it? Personalizing it with your own style makes it extra fun.

**🗺️  A Map of All Your Spots**
Print a map of your city or neighborhood and mark the places that became part of your shared story - your go-to coffee run, the park where you had heart-to-hearts, the corner store with the weirdly good snacks. If travel was your thing, you can even turn it into a mini [travel journal](https://yourkithandkin.com/blog/the-ultimate-guide-to-creating-meaningful-family-travel-traditions), complete with memories and photos. It’s a subtle nod to the moments you shared and the ones still ahead.

**✉️ Letters for the Road Ahead**
Bundle “open when” letters for all kinds of moments:

- Open when you’re homesick
- Open when you need a pep talk
- Open when something amazing happens

Tie them with a ribbon or tuck them in a keepsake box. These letters become a comfort kit they’ll turn to over and over again.

**🎥 A Group Video or Photo Montage**
Ask your circle to send quick clips or snapshots, then edit them together:

- Include a toast, a few jokes, and shared memories
- End it with “We’ll miss you” or a group cheer

It doesn’t have to be polished, just _personal_.

**🌿 A Tiny Piece of Everyday Magic**
It could be a pressed flower from their favorite walk, a candle that smells like home, or a polaroid of a regular Tuesday. Sometimes, it’s the little things that make someone feel like they’re carrying a piece of their old life into the new one.

## The Goodbye That Isn’t Really Goodbye
The truth is, when someone’s woven into your story, distance doesn’t change the thread. What matters is reminding them that they’re loved, missed, and never really far away.

So whether it’s a book full of memories, a playlist that tugs at the heart, or a recipe box of comfort food and chaos, give them something that says: You’ll always have a place here.

Goodbyes? They’re really just see-you-soons.

_💛 Looking for the perfect way to send them off?_
Create a Kith and Kin [going away book](https://yourkithandkin.com/other-occasions), packed with love, laughter, and everything they’ll want to carry with them.

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## FAQs
**What is a good going away gift for a friend?**
A good going away gift is personal, meaningful, and memorable. Popular ideas include a memory book with messages from friends, a playlist of shared songs, a recipe box filled with favorite dishes, or a “letters for the road” bundle for emotional support after the move.

**What can I put in a goodbye gift box for a friend?**
A goodbye gift box can include small sentimental items like handwritten notes, photos, snacks they love, a candle that smells like home, inside jokes, or a custom playlist. The key is to make it feel thoughtful and personal.

**What is something meaningful to give when someone is moving away?**
A [collaborative memory book](https://yourkithandkin.com/other-occasions) is one of the most meaningful gifts you can give. It brings together notes, photos, and stories from friends and family—creating a keepsake they’ll treasure no matter how far they go.

**How do I make a going away gift more personal?**
To make a gift personal, include shared memories, inside jokes, and contributions from mutual friends. Use prompts to gather stories or letters, add meaningful photos, and choose items that reflect your friendship.

**Can multiple people contribute to a going away gift?**
Yes! Group gifts are especially impactful. A collaborative gift—like a memory book or video montage—lets friends and family share messages, making the recipient feel loved and supported as they start a new chapter.

**What should I write in a going away message for a friend?**
Keep it heartfelt and sincere. Write a memory you shared, a message of encouragement, or advice for their next adventure. Even a simple “I’ll miss you” can be powerful when it’s honest and specific.

**How soon should I plan a going away gift before someone moves?**
It’s best to start 2–3 weeks before the move. This gives you time to collect messages, photos, or letters from others, especially if you’re creating a personalized or collaborative gift.

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